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Suicide Prevention 101 for Parents: Recognizing Signs and What to Do
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Dear Parents,  
Registration is open for our upcoming free webinars and Facebook Live events: Suicide Prevention 101 for Parents: Recognizing Signs and What to Do.  This free webinar will provide information about suicide prevention for parents, including warning signs for suicide, how to have a conversation with their child, actions to take if their child is having a suicidal thought, and resources.  The webinar is provided in partnership with the California Department of Education, the Directing Change Program, and Teen Line.  The webinar is offered in English, Spanish and Hmong.  
In English: 
  • December 17, 2020 from 12.30 p.m. to 1.30 p.m.  (In English) 
Or join the California Department of Education Facebook Live Event 
  • January 27, 2021 from 5 p.m. to 6 p.m.  (In English) 
Or join the California Department of Education Facebook Live Event 
En Espanol: 
  • December 21, 2020 from 5 p.m. to 6.30 p.m.  (En Español) 
O únase al evento en vivo de Facebook del Departamento de Educación de California  
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Please share this opportunity broadly with colleagues and parents.  
Estimados Colegas 
Por favor regístrate para nuestra próxima seminario web: Prevención del Suicidio para Padres: Las Señales y Qué Hacer 
Este seminario web gratuito proporcionará información sobre prevención del suicidio para los padres que incluye: reconocer las señales de advertencia de suicidio, cómo tener una conversación con tu hijo sobre tus inquietudes, acciones para tomar si tu hijo tiene pensamientos suicidas, consejos y recursos para apoyar la salud mental y emocional durante COVID-19, e información sobre como criar adolescentes resilientes.  El seminario web es proporcionado en colaboración con el Departamento de Educación de California, el Programa de Directing Change y Teen Line. 
Para registrate: : 
  • December 21, 2020 from 5.00 p.m. to 6.30 p.m.  (En Español) 
O únase al evento en vivo de Facebook del Departamento de Educación de California  
Comparta esta oportunidad ampliamente con tus colegas, miembros de su comunidad y padres.  
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Talking to Children about COVID-19

  • Remain calm and reassuring.  Let kids express their fears and anxiety and help them reframe into an appropriate perspective. Talk to them about factual information to reduce anxiety and uncertainty.
  • Be available. Kids need your extra time and attention right now. They need to know they are being heard and listened to.  They need you to be present. Keep in touch with loved ones and friends through phone calls and video chat.
  • Avoid blaming words.  Watch your words and avoid language that blames any group of people for the virus or creates stigma and stereotyping.
  • Monitor screen time. Watching constant updates and news about COVID-19 can be overwhelming and anxiety-inducing, especially for younger kids. Talk to your kids about information and rumors that may circulate on social media.
  • Maintain a normal routine where possible.  Nothing is normal right now.  Try to create and maintain stability within your home for your kids where you can.
  • Review and practice basic hygiene protocol. They are watching you! Wash hands frequently for 20 seconds at a time. Sneeze or cough into a tissue or the crook of your elbows. Do not share food or drinks.
Possible Mental Health Resources
Please check with your local insurance carrier for approved providers.
Kaiser Permanente
1600 Eureka, Roseville, CA 95661
(916) 784-4000
Sutter Roseville
1 Medical Plaza 1st Floor, Roseville, CA  95661
(916) 781-1800
Sutter Yuba Mental Health
1965 Live Oak Blvd., Yuba City, CA  95991
(530) 673-8255
UC Davis Children's Hospital
2315 Stockton Blvd., Sacramento, CA  95817
(800) UCD-4KIDS
(916) 734-2011 [24-hour operator]
If you have MediCal please call (530) 673-8255 or 1-800-923-3800 for additional referrals and resources.